What really is a second chance? People's perception of a second chance may be that, it's a chance which comes easily, even after failing the first time, or letting people down the first time, just like how game's work, where you can just simply restart even after you fail a certain mission. In this case, i'm not really talking about failing on doing something, but rather, when others are involved. I feel that sometimes, people really take this thing call the "second chance" for granted, by saying people, it includes myself. I remember asking for second chances, and blaming people for not giving me that second chance. But recently, i've been hearing a lot of stories and a lot of opinions people have of second chances. I begin to realise that, to give, or to have a second chance, is actually not that easy as people might have imagined.

A second chance, in this case, is a chance that comes after you blew the first, where someone may have already by disappointed. This cause the trust in that certain person to shake a little, no matter how close the two of you were. The shaken trust will definitely lead to some doubt the next time a task was to be given to you, or you were asked to help, a question will surface and that would be whether you're cut out for it, whether you're able to deliver the work, or whether will it be like the past, where you have failed to successfully do what you are requested for. The ability in you will be questioned, in other words.

To get to second chance back, i've realised that, the effort to get the trust back, is doubled the effort needed at the start. Hardwork is needed to let the person trust you again, to let the person have faith in you again.

When the second chance is really given, it really is quite the most important one. It will really determine whether you should be trusted still. This second chance, is where we have to work doubly hard too. To succeed in it.

Well, that's all i really thought about, and it's really subjected to opinions and perceptions. This relates to me. But all in all, try not to mess up the first time, so a second chance is never needed. =)